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At what age does “empathy” begin to develop?

02.08.2026

“Empathy” is the profound ability to understand and share the feelings of others, and it is absolutely essential for building meaningful social bonds. So, are we naturally born with this ability?

According to psychological research, human beings begin to show the first signs of empathy at a very early stage of life. Even from birth, infants may start crying simply when they hear another baby cry, and by around 6 months of age, they begin to actively mimic the facial expressions of those around them. This initial stage is known as “emotional contagion.” At this point, while infants can instinctively sense and mirror the emotions of others, they do not yet fully comprehend them on a cognitive level.

Around the age of 2, children begin to demonstrate clearer signs of genuine empathetic concern. For instance, they might spontaneously offer a toy to a peer in distress or attempt to comfort a child who is crying. During this pivotal period, the core foundations of empathy—recognizing that someone else is experiencing an emotion and feeling a desire to help them—become increasingly prominent.

Then, by preschool age, this sense of empathy deepens significantly. Children start to realize that different people have entirely different ways of thinking and feeling. They begin to apologize sincerely when they hurt someone, become increasingly aware of how their own actions affect others, and start to act with genuine consideration for their peers.

Subsequently, between the ages of 6 and 12, children develop what is known as cognitive empathy. This involves fully understanding another person's unique perspective and emotional state, as well as learning how to effectively manage their own emotions within various social situations. During adolescence, they further refine this ability to understand and express empathy within complex social contexts. They also become much more conscious of how to empathize with people outside their immediate community, extending their awareness toward broader social issues.

Since humans are inherently social beings, empathy serves as a crucial element in establishing trusting relationships with others. It appears that we possess the seeds of empathy even before we are consciously aware of it; it naturally becomes more refined as we grow, evolving into a highly advanced emotional tool throughout childhood and adolescence.


Author Bio

島田栄治医師/Dr. Eiji Shimada

Dr. Eiji Shimada

Oriental Wellcare Group Founder

Board-certified radiologist. He manages one of Japan’s largest independent teleradiology service companies, receiving more than 10,000 imaging interpretation requests per month from over 250 hospitals nationwide. He also has a track record as a pioneer of home healthcare in Japan, having founded and managed one of the country’s largest medical corporations specializing in home-based medical care.

In November 2014, he founded Oriental Wellcare Group. Today, the group operates a broad network of medical institutions across three countries: the Philippines, Malaysia, and the United States. He is dedicated to creating healthcare environments where Japanese residents overseas, including those living in the Philippines, can receive advanced medical care with peace of mind.